Monday, June 13th, 2005
On Saturday, we attended my brother-in-law’s wedding… This wedding started early — 5:30 am for some of the girls — mostly because the girls had to be ready by 9 am for the “door games” where the guys in the wedding party have to negotiate with the bridesmaids for the bride. The bribe? Some money, cake, tea, and a whole roast pig. Once the bridesmaids allow the groom to enter the house, there’s a tea ceremony for the bride’s family — the bride and groom serve tea to the elders in exchange for gifts…
The Bride’s Bouquet, fresh from the florist
…and the bridesmaid’s flowers
The Best Man, Simon, and my DH waiting outside the Bride’s front door, gifts in hand.
Alex making a $20 bid for Nancy (yeah, it was later rejected!)
One of the bridemaid’s obstacles: all the guys in the wedding party have to drink something that represents sweet, salty, bitter, and sour — those things that are part of every marriage. Alex got the bitter glass.
The conspiring bridesmaids
That would be the roast pig.
And that would be Nancy’s relatives hacking up the pig to keep the best part (the head and tail are sent back to the groom’s house).
“Double Happiness” oranges
Tea for the cermony at the groom’s house
Yes, there were orchids decorating the church pews too.
And there’s Nancy, my new sis-in-law, with her father and mother…
The cake being set up…
The happy couple, Alex and Nancy.